Chapter Seven of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
08:43 Rupture repair
22:50 Dr. Kirk's apologies
1:27:52 Listener reflection
1:31:49 Changes in the podcast
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Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Seven with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Seven Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 2) 01:02 Chris Brown on Larry King
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2022-10-26 14:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Chapter Six of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
04:53 Phase 1 - Uncovering phase
13:57 Phase 2 - Decision phase
16:37 Phase 3 - Work phase
22:00 Phase 4 - Deepening phase
23:33 Pred...
2022-10-25 15:01:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Six with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Six Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 1)
00:33 Chris Brown's apology
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2022-10-25 14:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Chapter Five of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:56 Giving & receiving forgiveness
17:51 Definitions
34:47 Forgiveness vs. Acceptance
42:02 Dr. Kirk's forgiveness
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2022-10-24 15:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Five with an analysis of Taylor Swift’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Five Intro: Taylor Swift Analysis)
00:24 Joe Jonas & Taylor Swift's apology
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Chapter Four of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Culture & transgressions
09:10 Dr. Kirk's family culture
19:40 Culture and meaning
29:58 Accusations in therapy & a hypothetical apolog...
2022-10-21 15:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Four with an analysis of Donald Trump’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Four Intro: Donald Trump Analysis)
00:08 Analysis of Trump's apology
09:02 Culture preview
Chapter Three of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Apology efficacy
12:35 Intensity markers
15:35 Remorse
22:37 Prior relationships
27:34 Independent vs. Relational vs. Collect...
2022-10-20 15:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Three with a continuation of the analysis of Bill Clinton’s apology.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Three Intro: Bill Clinton Analysis, part 2)
00:23 Analysis of Bill Clinton's 2nd apol...
2022-10-20 14:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post
Chapter Two of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:10 Predictors of an apology
18:08 Goals of an apology
21:19 Closure
35:04 Acceptance
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2022-10-19 15:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Two with an analysis of Bill Clinton’s apology.
01:05 Analysis of Bill Clinton's apology
30:16 Bill Clinton's grade
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2022-10-19 14:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr. Kirk Honda starts his deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.
00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter One: Definition and Components)
00:27 Apology exercise
13:41 Definitions of forgiveness
28:47 Happiness = D...
2022-10-17 14:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk does a deep dive on all 14 of the personality disorders.
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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad.
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Finishing up the first chapter of my deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. This deep dive is way more complicated and meaningful than I thought it would be. Publishing next week. Can't wait to hear what you think of it.
2022-10-14 18:16:13 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk Honda interviews an expert on sex offender treatment, Casey VanHoutan, LPC, SOTP. You can contact her at casey@iceprogrampdx.com.
00:00 Becoming a specialist with sexual offenders
06:03 Myths about sexual offenders
14:35 ...
2022-10-14 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Bob talk about hugs, ethics, and anger.
00:00 Hugs, Ethics, and Anger
00:06 Hugs
02:52 Favorite trips
05:35 Bob & Dr. Kirk's ideal trip together
08:08 Patron break
09:04 OPP
11:10 Medical terminatio...
Dr Kirk and Humberto review the new Netflix show about the serial killer, Jeffrey Dahmer.
00:00 Jeffrey Dahmer & homophobia
24:09 Anne Heche & substance abuse
34:01 Assessment of Dahmer
1:24:23 Seeking closene...
2022-10-10 14:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob review a case in which a therapist was unethical.
More Therapists Getting Sued
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2022-10-09 14:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Have you had moments that changed your life forever? Dr. Kirk Honda discusses his developmental milestones.
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2022-10-08 14:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things
00:35 Betrayal trauma
03:10 Emotionally distant
04:59 Butler syndrome
31:21 Charities & OPP
34:33 Kirk ...
2022-10-07 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Dr Kirk and Rebecca react to Reddit.
00:00 Drunk, Judgy, Stressed Therapists
01:15 Broken trust in therapy
09:42 Feeling judged by therapist
18:30 Shamed in therapy
22:26 The new chair!
32:00 Vinyls &...
2022-10-05 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] We discuss a listener's complaints about their therapist.
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Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Lightning Round Rantings
00:36 Tragedy & empathy
03:11 Biggest lesson in our careers
06:52 Relational trauma & anger
20:38 Therapist secretly testing clie...
2022-10-03 14:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
[Rerun] Has civilization ruined our lives? Should we be living as hunter-gatherers? Is it against our evolution to have houses and cellphones? Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Christopher Ryan (author of Sex at Dawn) who answers these questions in hi...
2022-10-02 14:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Nazanin Nour explains why the protesters in Iran are fighting and dying for their freedoms. You can find Nazanin on Instagram @iamnazaninnour and Twitter @NazaninNour.
00:00 Mahsa Amini & Iranian protests
14:44 Viral support & ...
2022-09-30 14:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
What makes Armie Hammer tick? What is vore fetish? Dr Kirk and Humberto watched the new documentary on Discovery+ and have a lot to say.
00:00 Armie Hammer intro
06:07 Backlash to documentary
13:12 Love bombing&n...
2022-09-28 14:01:01 +0000 UTC View Post
